when someone pulls u down, u don’t need to stay at the bottom of the black hole forever. Well, u can stand up and fight against the negative current that comes against your way.
Nothing is impossible….
Everything that happens, it happens for a reason, God knows why. haha! nah, i always believe that in life, we have to go through certain things and circumstances in order to mould the person we’re supposed to be.
I dun deny that my life is not like still water, nah… no one’s life is forever still, unless u’re a monk, or a nun. u knw.. the “oohhmmmmmm”.. haha!
A bunch of my friends are undergoing some important judgment today. I sincerely pray for their success. Erm, like i said, there’s reason why they are being put to the situation.
I’ve came across an article and speech by someone. It’s about family, father and sons.
Nowadays, according to him, fathers, they are FM105.7, Sons, they are FM92.9. So, both are different frequency. So, no need to make it same cuz somehow, it wont be. haha! He said, FAthers always tell their sons how they lived last time, no TV, a pair of shoes for dunno how many years, a pair of trousers have to share with brothers…bla bla bla…..
well, how can a father expect their sons to understand? right?? Thanks to the fathers because they’ve made their sons’ life so comfortable that the sons cannot understand how is it like to live in poverty. haha. (imagining fathers ranting to their sons about their past in an air-conditioned room,with the Sons playing laptop.. and the father is talking and ranting to their sons about their past.. =_=)
Actually, he said.. children learn better through actions of parents. This one, i agree. When father buys his kids a pair of Addidas new shoe and he himself only buy Bata shoes, the children realizes. They will knw that their father rather sacrifice their own needs to fulfill their children’s needs.
Another example, from the way Father talk to his wife, from the way the parents talk to others, especially elderly, they are the lessons to the kids. Don’t underestimate every single thing you do, PArents!! listen up!!!
Your attitude influences kid’s attitude! If u want your kids to learn, no matter how old is your kids, action speaks louder than words!!!
so, save all the nagging.. stop all the ranting.. you dun need to remind your kids how life were so difficult for you because you are the one who practically done a great job so that your kids doesnt need to undergo all the hard life.
=P
so, i thank my parents too.
I still admit that we are still on different channels, Probably I’m 95.8, they’re trying to be 94.5. Somehow, closer, but.. distant is still there.
If u want me to talk openly to them, nah… i cant . I wasnt being brought up this way and.. due to past experience, I rather dun want to. The fear of getting scolded has already impregnated in me since i was very very young. So, automatically, i have a barrier for doing so. It is normal, as i’m from a typical chinese family, where canes used to be the king of everything! =)
in conclusion, wanna educate your child? action speaks louder than words. =)
If u cheat, your kids will learn how to cheat.
If you do something kind, your kids will learn it too.
If you force, your kids will turn to be someone indecisive.cuz they dun hv the right to voice out.
Trust me, every little thing that you do, kids will learn and realize. Most importantly, let them express their views. Let them choose the path they wanna live.. PArents can only guide till a certain stage and certain limit, Life belongs to individual, no one has total control on another’s life. I always believe that.
ok, time to study. Online just to make me awake.
ciao peepz!
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